As I’ve posted very recently, BDSM has taken a back seat to other things in my life due to distance from my pet, and the agreement that we have which dictates if both of us aren’t together, I’m not to practice with anyone else. This sounds like a switcheroo and might cause people to wonder…
Category: Planning
Back Burner
Kidney stones suck. There, I said it. I’ve been dealing with kidney stones for the past half year and it’s causing a lot of uproar in my BDSM life. Last year I was able to see my pet twice, after being separated for a couple of years due to COVID and other issues. We’d hoped…
Postpone Play?
2024 is quickly becoming a lot like 2021 turned out to be. With a few exceptions. But basically, my pet’s and my plans for meeting keep being pushed back due to circumstances. First, my wife’s and my summer vacation keeps having to be rescheduled, which causes issues with the timing of my pet’s vacation here,…
Future Furniture
Over the past few years, I’ve been considering what sort of kinky furniture I want to have in my house/dungeon/fungeon/play space when the time comes. I have my (now fairly ancient) spanking bench, but I’d like to have some other items to use when my Pet becomes the housePet. She and I have had fledgling…
Been a year
I was just reminded this morning while booting up my computer before work it’s been a year since my pet visited. In the time she was here, we were able to have a couple of good sessions, and did some sightseeing around the area, to balance out the visit so it wasn’t just all play…
Dungeon Upgrade
[Cleaning up the Draft folder. This one I started in July of last year…..] Ever have one of those brainstorms where you think to yourself “wouldn’t it be great if I had the time, money and space to do…..something”? Yeah, me too. Though I have the time, I don’t yet have the money or space to…
Keep kink in your heart
It’s January, 2024. It will be several months before my pet can return from VA to visit. In the meantime, I have to keep occupied and attempt to keep things fresh for when she does arrive. Which is a tall order when you’re basically in a holding pattern until that occurs. In the interim, I…
Keep the Holidays Merry
We’re deep in the Christmas season, and my pet and I are still long distance. The fact of the matter is, for the forseeable future that’s going to remain the case. Even so, we try to celebrate the holidays best that we can, maintaining our connection and checking off another season til we can see…
Broken Links
While I was researching one of my recent posts, I discovered that a fair few places that I had used over the years to purchase items are no longer viable. The websites are gone, the people that ran them seem to be no longer in the scene, or just gave up on the whole business…
Our ‘Chair’
A kinky friend of mine posted today about a session she and her Master had with a particular piece of furniture they own. It easily reminded me of many conversations my Pet and I have had over the years about the inclusion of a similar piece of furniture that could be incorporated into our play. …