It’s January, 2024. It will be several months before my pet can return from VA to visit. In the meantime, I have to keep occupied and attempt to keep things fresh for when she does arrive. Which is a tall order when you’re basically in a holding pattern until that occurs. In the interim, I…
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Merry Christmas!
Wishing you all a Merry Christmas, and the happiest of holidays.
T’was the Kinky Night Before Christmas
A Kinky Night before Christmas Note: This isn’t my writing, I remember reading this on the alt.sex.bondage Usenet newsgroup. (Yeah, I’m that old) This was originally written by Steven S. Davis, and as Tiny Tim would say God Bless ‘Im! ‘Twas the night before Christmas, and all through the house Not a sound escaped from…
Keep the Holidays Merry
We’re deep in the Christmas season, and my pet and I are still long distance. The fact of the matter is, for the forseeable future that’s going to remain the case. Even so, we try to celebrate the holidays best that we can, maintaining our connection and checking off another season til we can see…
Broken Links
While I was researching one of my recent posts, I discovered that a fair few places that I had used over the years to purchase items are no longer viable. The websites are gone, the people that ran them seem to be no longer in the scene, or just gave up on the whole business…
Lament
lament [ləˈment] – noun 1. an expression of regret or disappointment Of all of the kink-related toys that I’ve either purchased or acquired over the years, I would have to say far and away my collection of floggers are my most prized. That being said, I somewhat regret choosing the Heartwood elk flogger instead of the…
A little help goes a long way
The other day I was browsing through Fetlife when I came across a post on a selling group from someone semi-local to me. She was trying to sell a set of kinky furniture she had purchased as a present for her (then) submissive who, when seeing the equipment apparently had a change of heart and…
Local Kinkster?
Last week I was at work and I happened to spot someone wearing what appeared to be either a Ring of Steel or Eternity Collar. As it seemed to be slightly tarnished, it could have been either, but the way the person was wearing it suggested (to me at least) that she was very comfortable…
Collar Conundrum
I thought I was done with this issue a couple of years ago when my pet accidentally lost her first collar, and we replaced it with one that seemed a bit more practical, wasn’t necessarily going to get misplaced inadvertently, and wasn’t going to have issues with allergies to its material. It worked for a…
Our ‘Chair’
A kinky friend of mine posted today about a session she and her Master had with a particular piece of furniture they own. It easily reminded me of many conversations my Pet and I have had over the years about the inclusion of a similar piece of furniture that could be incorporated into our play. …