I was thinking the other morning when I was in the shower before work how much music has played a part in recent years in my play sessions. It didn’t always used to be that way, though. When I was first starting out in BDSM, play sessions were always quiet. No music, no outside interactions….
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A Kinky Night Before Christmas
I just happened to notice that I posted this last year as well. Tradition? Showing my age? I turned off comments, as it seemed repetitive to leave them open for something I already said in 2023. Happy Holidays, dear readers. -Leathers Note: This isn’t my writing, I remember reading this on the alt.sex.bondage Usenet newsgroup….
Back Burner
Kidney stones suck. There, I said it. I’ve been dealing with kidney stones for the past half year and it’s causing a lot of uproar in my BDSM life. Last year I was able to see my pet twice, after being separated for a couple of years due to COVID and other issues. We’d hoped…
Postpone Play?
2024 is quickly becoming a lot like 2021 turned out to be. With a few exceptions. But basically, my pet’s and my plans for meeting keep being pushed back due to circumstances. First, my wife’s and my summer vacation keeps having to be rescheduled, which causes issues with the timing of my pet’s vacation here,…
Whew, found it! Now what?
I’ve been going back and forth in my brain whether or not to write about this. Of course, since I have such a small following, I ended up deciding it won’t do much harm to. So here it is. Like many kinksters, I’ve been a fan of Insex almost since the beginning. From that inception,…
Been a year
I was just reminded this morning while booting up my computer before work it’s been a year since my pet visited. In the time she was here, we were able to have a couple of good sessions, and did some sightseeing around the area, to balance out the visit so it wasn’t just all play…
Love & BDSM
A scene friend of mine and fellow blogger posted a question a while ago about whether love and BDSM have to be connected. Of course, this isn’t a cut-and-dried yes or no answer, it depends on the dynamic you have with your Dominant or submissive. I would have to say in my case, love has…
Dungeons of Fetlife (Part 1)
Continuation of the story I referenced about a week ago. Upon entry to the room, I peer into the dimness, and suddenly a new scent assails my nostrils….fresh earth. “What in the world?” I think to myself as I step further inside…and just as I think that the confines of the room change; what was…
Dungeons of Fetlife
Many years ago on Fetlife, a friend came up with an idea for a story of your own making. I don’t remember all of the details of how it came about, but the main gist of it was, you were led into a dungeon area of Fetlife, and from there you could craft a scenario…
When BDSM & your Marriage Don’t Mesh
I’ve been following a certain Dominant for about a month, and he’s been very prolific in his postings. However, within the last few days, he suddenly went completely silent. Not only on my feed, but his Instagram account disappeared as well. I wasn’t sure why (it could easily be any number of reasons) but with…