I was thinking the other morning when I was in the shower before work how much music has played a part in recent years in my play sessions. It didn’t always used to be that way, though. When I was first starting out in BDSM, play sessions were always quiet. No music, no outside interactions….
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Happy New Year 2025
I have to say, 2024 was a bust when it came to kinky play or kinky much of anything in my world. Here’s to hoping that will be rectified this year, and our fledgling plans for the future move forward with success. As for everyone else; wishing you a Happy New Year, enjoyment of your…
Back Burner
Kidney stones suck. There, I said it. I’ve been dealing with kidney stones for the past half year and it’s causing a lot of uproar in my BDSM life. Last year I was able to see my pet twice, after being separated for a couple of years due to COVID and other issues. We’d hoped…
Been a year
I was just reminded this morning while booting up my computer before work it’s been a year since my pet visited. In the time she was here, we were able to have a couple of good sessions, and did some sightseeing around the area, to balance out the visit so it wasn’t just all play…
Love & BDSM
A scene friend of mine and fellow blogger posted a question a while ago about whether love and BDSM have to be connected. Of course, this isn’t a cut-and-dried yes or no answer, it depends on the dynamic you have with your Dominant or submissive. I would have to say in my case, love has…
Dungeons of Fetlife
Many years ago on Fetlife, a friend came up with an idea for a story of your own making. I don’t remember all of the details of how it came about, but the main gist of it was, you were led into a dungeon area of Fetlife, and from there you could craft a scenario…
Dungeon Upgrade
[Cleaning up the Draft folder. This one I started in July of last year…..] Ever have one of those brainstorms where you think to yourself “wouldn’t it be great if I had the time, money and space to do…..something”? Yeah, me too. Though I have the time, I don’t yet have the money or space to…
Collar Conundrum
I thought I was done with this issue a couple of years ago when my pet accidentally lost her first collar, and we replaced it with one that seemed a bit more practical, wasn’t necessarily going to get misplaced inadvertently, and wasn’t going to have issues with allergies to its material. It worked for a…
Our ‘Chair’
A kinky friend of mine posted today about a session she and her Master had with a particular piece of furniture they own. It easily reminded me of many conversations my Pet and I have had over the years about the inclusion of a similar piece of furniture that could be incorporated into our play. …