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Getting a reference from a top’s friend or current play partner is like asking Donald Trump what he thinks of Donald Trump. Get references from people your potential play partner isn’t on good terms with. When someone tells you how obedient you should be as a sub, ignore them. Kink is supposed to be fun. It’s not a religion […]

via Things I Wish I’d Known About Kink from the Start — The Ochre Muse